Answer: I beg to differ that she is “no longer with me and our children”. In Truth, she continues as the guiding light for each and everyone that knows and loves her. As human, however, we often neglect to gain insight to connect with the higher power that is present and available.
As I consider your wife’s death to the physical, it is an immediate reminder that your precious wife and enduring life-partner no longer needs the human experiences that we call suffering. She is free! She is free to realize a new stage of her eternal journey.
That said, it is certainly not enough to validate a husband’s loss of his loving wife and partner or the children’s loss of their adoring mother. After she is physically absent from sight, you all continue to walk the streets of the corporal world. You proceed through what often may seem alone and at times may appear daunting. But, by your experiences, you have the infallible way to rise above the challenges of human hood.
One such challenge that plagues mankind from the beginning of time is dealing with suffering and death, including your sense of loss and grieving. From the greater perspective, your wife did not die; rather, she lives. Her form has shifted from the physical. Yet, she remains the loving expression. She now plays the most vital role of all. She remains your precious teacher to help you overcome the notion of suffering and death to realize the true potential of life forevermore. The true remedy for the disease of suffering is realizing your Truth.